I am often surprised by the fact that how easily, we humans lie. We just lie without thinking about the after effects... And one lie leads to another and that to another and the chain continues.
Well some say sometimes we lie to loved ones b'coz, Truth hurts. But what if they find out the truth from someone else?? Wouldn't that be painful.. Will your loved one trust u again?? Can they ever talk to the same way they use to.. Can they have the same amount of faith on you as they had before.
I guess the answer is NO... There is no place for lies in a relationship.. No relationship can stand on lies... It makes the foundation of the relationship weak... Love and trust are inseparable. One can't exist without the other... Once the trust is gone.. the other vanishes..
I can say one thing for sure... of course TRUTH HURTS.... but LIES KILL.
All I can say is never lie to you loved ones.. maybe truth hurts... may be they will feel bad for a day or two or a week knowing the truth but a lie will keep them hurting for the rest of their life..
Truth hurts,Assumptions damage and lie kills :)
ReplyDeleteHey Satyavadi Harishchandra...What about the times when a small lie has saved someone's life...I guess lying is perfectly okay under those circumstances...But its a good thought. " if you tell the truth you dont have to remember what you told. it'll remain with you 4 a long time unlike the thousand things you need to remember inorder to save the lie from spilling out."
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ReplyDeleteU r true dada.. but those are white lies... hopefully won't hurt people even if they find out...
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ReplyDeleteYou know...speaking truth or lies is the individual's choice and depends on personal integrity that person wishes to carry with him...but what matters is that the other person doesn't hurt you(physically/morally/dharmically)...doesn't plot aganist you...doesn't malign you....doesn't insult you for no fault of yours....
ReplyDeleteThis comment may not be directly related to your topic....but nevertheless i felt it was needed...
Beleive me....I have been hurt my many people for many many years...and i know how it feels....
@ vijay.. U r true vijay... and that what exactly happened..
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